is marriage really a fulfilment for all Women?

I once read a post of how a retired lecturer gave a departing advise to her students.

In summary, she said that as a good Academian, she had enjoyed fame, wealth, travels, respects and many more. She added that all she enjoyed have been forgotten by her as she guaged her lonely life without having a home or children.

Hence she advised that the best and fulfilling purpose for every woman is to get married and build a home.

What then do I have to say about the post?

Well, great writeup and Advise.

At least, she feels marriage would give her fulfillment.

It is great to know someone gave birth to me and all. The question that remains is about family or no family, it where we see our very own selves, and accept ourselves to be part of.

It could be curiosity, business, marriage and just anything.

We just need acceptance and Satisfaction in whatsoever we want to do. This is because the old woman who died hungry and alone in the village had children and built a home. In order to bury her, the children renovated the thatched house to a cemented one, and fed the whole village.

Then again, she died of hunger, loneliness and with no proper place to rest her head.

I would say, marriage is good, still it is not the requirement for a fulfilled life. Indeed, Happiness, acceptance and peace of mind is what we need to have twith our own selves, in what we want or see ourselves.

You know, we should not forget why we struggle in the first place, it is to be happy and peaceful. Many have struggled so much that they do not know what it means to even enjoy their hardwork and be happy.

Enjoy, be peaceful and appreciate your hardwork.

 *Warm Smiles*