My Opinion on Marriage

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Marriage is a legal Union between a Man and a Woman.
As for me, I feel its just a higher form of friendship-commitment; and since it seemed like people do not believe in these, I just ignored the institution all together. 
To say the Truth, for Many Years it has never been my dream, I mean, you could say I had Phobia for marriage.
    But Then, I saw amazing marriages. Peoplewho mutually worked and who tried to be friends though knowing their imperfections. Marriages like that of Isaac Imeh and Cecilia Roselyn, Pst Paul and Becky Enenche, Pst. Abel and Racheal Damina. And now, Marriages of Nhira Brian & Sonia and that of Jamie Grace and Aaron Collins.
I know it is from mutual obligations and diligence it gets better, it is what I prefer.
It is better than having a glorified man, who thinks he is better than you, and you are under his feet. A man who feels like you are only meant for procreation and coitus.
And it is better than having one spoilt small minded woman, who thinks that marrying the best man will make her the best (well, if it was magic with no corresponding responsibility, yes of course, but its not). 
Marriage just like life itself is hardwork, diligence, patience, love and respect. To me, I now can see it since I now can see what I believe in, in it. 
Listening to Powercity's wedding Vow will make you just love marriage more.

My dream is not just for marriage, it is also for us all to change our mindsets and treat others as friends...the love of God is a Friendship and a Union of which believing can birth the relationship..God loves us all beyond our Mistakes, that's why died for man, paid man's price and Rose from the grave, giving us Victory in Him.
Secondly, (Mentally,) Ladies, develop your minds, as well as you all brothers!
Renew your mind by the word, and by training and acquiring needed Knowledge.
#GodLovesUBeyondYourMistakes
#ShesWithBrains

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