Hathele

I once read a post of how a retired lecturer gave a departing advise to her students. In summary, she said that as a good Academian, she had enjoyed fame, wealth, travels, respects and many more. She added that all she enjoyed have been forgotten by her as she guaged her lonely life without having a home or children. Hence she advised that the best and fulfilling purpose for every woman is to get married and build a home. What then do I have to say about the post? Well, great writeup and Advise. At least, she feels marriage would give her fulfillment. It is great to know someone gave birth to me and all. The question that remains is about family or no family, it where we see our very own selves, and accept ourselves to be part of. It could be curiosity, business, marriage and just anything. We just need acceptance and Satisfaction in whatsoever we want to do. This is because the old woman who died hungry and alone in the village had children and built a home. In order to bu...

My comment on the writeup of Phil, which is an interview of Adriano at: https://www.aschoolfortomorrow.community/posts/striving-to-be-remarkable I think the point that corrects me in this writeup is point 2. "remarkable leadership requires you to seek it out and listen to understand, not listen to respond. Great learning often occurs in this struggle. Reflection is a process of examining and interpreting experience to gain new understandings and growth. Take time to always reflect, affirm and remember to be gentle with yourself." At most times, I have feared people's feedbacks because I think it would break me and make me take longer time to heal. So, I try getting feedback other ways. Either ways, some things still has to break us as humans, and we still get to heal to be stronger. I reflect on myself, but I have not seen myself gentle or treated me with gentleness. Why? Because I feel 'if the world will never be gentle, why should I harbour such bel...