Hathele

So, Aunty Mary has been complaining about how I keep the lights on till morning while sleeping. When using a meter, you tend to value every unit of light you are using, as it is not the general estimate that was previously used, which allows for excess. And it got me wondering how I will explain the lights on to her. In fact, how do I get to tell her these things or should I put it this way? So, I am not a Trophy woman. So most of the time you find the lights on, it means I am up working. Cambridge Dictionary Defines a Trophy Wife as "a young attractive woman who marries an older Man that is rich and success for the comfort and security he can offer her". The idea behind it is that, the man is too old for such a young and beautiful woman but since he could afford to provide for what she needs (comfort and security), he gets her as a Trophy. Personally, I see a Trophy Woman as one who does not like getting her hands dirty. She marries or befriends people who do the...

As a child tutor, I constantly see adults (including me) trying to make kids perfect people without mistakes. This is when we know very well that we were not any wiser at their age. Please, Let them experience life for themselves. Lets just tell them the 'why' we said some things are or where wrong. So as to help them make informed decisions. The above Picture shows Esther and grace (There are siblings). Esther never jokes with her kid Sister. And the same goes to most of the kids with younger ones. One is young Priestly. Priestly loves and cares for his kid sister so much that it is very endearing to grant him favours to check up on her. Kids also try to obey and care for their loved ones (whether older or younger) in the best way they can. So, Aunties, Uncles and Parents, let's try to also commend their good works instead of always mentioning their wrongs. Let's encourage our little children (our boys and girls) positively. They also have mental h...