THE COUNSELLED SPOUSE.
Lisa and Mike have 2 girls and two boys. They feel it is the responsibilities of the girls to take care of the home like waking up early, sweep amd tidy up all the personal rooms, store room and kitchen, cook three times a day for the family, wash the plates, wash clothes and every other house chores. While the boys have to "try to" wakeup and then do whatever they want through out the day. Amaka and chioma, (Lisa and mike's daughters) have complained several times, of how their brothers would: "Not lift a finger to even tidy or arrange their clothes"; "Not clean their rooms"; "Not wash a heap of their dirty clothes"; "Not return the plates they eat with, but stack them up on a table in their rooms like a major waste hill"; " They do not wash their plates after eating, hence, no plates returned or washed to be used in serving them food again, they cannot as much as flush the toilet"; "Keep their shoes wel...